I'M NO BEAUTY QUEEN, IM JUST BEAUTIFUL ME! :)

Bitterness starts from people who cannot accept rejection. In ending a relationship, it is very important for us to be able of accepting what the truth is. They’ve said it; Truth Hurts. Sometimes the truth is more than we can take. Acceptance is a very important factor. Being able to accept the fact that you are not treasured that much, accepting that there is no more possibility for him or her to come back, or simply accepting rejection. And in connection to this, we should believe that we can find someone better than that person. Someone who can value, love and care for us more. Someone who would try to pick us up and everytime we fall. And someone who would not want, but would try to not hurt you in any way humanly possible. You continually ask, ‘What if there’s no one else out there? What should we do instead?’. What’s hard for most people is that they tend to hang on for few reasons. People are afraid that they might not find someone else in the future. We are just afraid. Afraid of being alone, that’s why we choose to stay and we keep ourselves from the past’s creep even though it’s nailing us into extreme pain. 

GROW UP. Have the courage and the maturity to find out what will happen if you leave things that aren’t worth keeping for. We are all in this world to explore and meet our future. We find, we work, we create, we produce. Always try to put in mind that we are meant to do something or to be for someone, but nothing will happen if we don’t work it out. It’s wrong to hide ourselves from reality and to others, and we focus on things that once became ours. Look around, seek. Try to tell yourself that you should go on with the future rather than to be stucked in a past you know will never be yours again. I know it’s hard to accept some things, but time we’ll be a friend of yours and we’ll heal all wounds. Another, I know that there will always be leftouts after some scratches or wounds, but what’s important to always put in mind are the positive or delightful moments you had with the person, even though you know that there’s no chance of bringing it back. The lessons you learned should be kept. And you’ll be safer the next time you meet someone. Build the future that was meant to be yours… long time ago.

• Kaya kang ipakilala kahit kanino
• Kaya kang isama kahit kasama ang barkada niya
• Marunong makitext makatext ka lang
• Lalapitan ka sa oras na may problema ka
• Handang tumabi sayo kapag tahimik ka
• Alam yung anong ibig sabihin ng salitang pag papahalaga
• Marunong magbigay ng sapat na oras para lang sa taong mahal niya 

• Kung hindi mo na siya mahal, pakawalan mo na. Sabihin mo agad. Wag mo na siyang paasahin pa.
• Kung alam mong hindi ka niya mahal, magpapakatanga ka pa? Gumising ka. Walang gamot sa katangahan kundi pagkukusa. 
• Kung nahihirapan ka na, dapat pakawalan mo ang mga bagay (o tao) na sanhi ng paghihirap mo.
• Kung may iba ka nang mahal, sabihin mo. Wag mo na siyang saktan pa, dahil ang pagkukunwari mong siya pa rin ang mahal mo, ay para mo na rin siyang pinapatay.
• Kung hindi ka na masaya, wag mo nang pilitin ang sarili mo. Kahit anong pilit mo, kung malungkot ka talaga, wala ka nang magagawa.